Friday, January 02, 2009

New Year already!

Hello everyone!

Well, another year gone by. This year has gone by so quickly it is unbelievable!
I am afraid that I didn't keep my New Year's resolutions. It is rather disappointing to read over your list and realize that you haven't kept any of them! However, I am more determined to keep my new ones that I am making this year.
A friend was telling me about a man on a radio station. He said that he kept one of his new year resolutions: That he would never attend another new year's party until next year! :)
I think I want to add that to my list......at least I would be able to keep it! :)
I am exchanging letters with a friend, and she was telling me how she would really like to delight in the Lord. We may read our Bibles and go to church, but are we really delighting in the Lord? If we aren't, then how do we start?
Job 22:26 tells us, "For then you will delight in the Almighty and lift up your face to God."
If we are delighting in Him, we should be able to have a new look at the things He has made.

I am guilty of going through my day without really noticing little flowers that He has made, or thanking Him for my family. I think that we all do things like that. However, if we are supposed to delight in the Lord, then we should be thankful for things like that.

Psalm 1:2 "But his delight is in the Law of the Lord, and in His Law he meditates day and night."

Not only should we be thankful, but we should be thankful ALL the time! We should be meditating on God's Word and living by it.

But how do we delight in the Lord? We see the commandments of it, but how do we apply it to our lives?

God wants us to LIVE the Fruit of the Spirit. They are Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness, and Self-control. The one I would like to focus on is Joy.

We usually think about Joy as being happy and fun. However, the word enjoy has a different meaning. It means contentment! So, when we are full of Joy, we should be full of contentment. We should be content with the things, big and small, that God has given us. If we are content or full of Joy, we are delighting in the Lord!

Have you ever done something for someone? Maybe they are sick and need a glass of water. Or maybe your mom is very tired, but the dishes need to be washed. Instead of reminding her that those need to be done, you do it for her. How do you feel? I always feel happy! I am content when I do things for other people.

Philippians 2:3 "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than yourself."

If we are focused on serving others before ourselves we are delighting in God because we are following His Word. We are delighting in the Law of the Lord!

I remember a time when I went through a "selfish streak". I didn't want to do anything and I felt rather depressed. (I know some of you are shocked! haha) I was very sad. Then, my dad held an office party in his new office for all his workers and people that were in the same company. He asked Mom, Rebecca, and me to come help. We did deli trays and such. As I was watching tables, I noticed that the chip bowl was empty. I filled it up. Then someone asked if I could get more dressing. I was starting to serve others, and I started to feel happy. By the end of the day, I was no longer sad. I felt great and ready to serve anyone who asked for help. I learned a very good lesson. When we are selfish (which is against God's Word) we are sad and/or depressed; just the way Satan and his minions want us to feel. When we are serving others and are delighting in His Law, we are defeating those minions and drawing closer to God.

I would like to give another example that I was told from my Dear Mama. :)
We were sitting around the table discussing a Bible verse (Galatians 5:16-25 to be exact.). As we were discussing the particular part "....For the flesh sets itself against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh....." Mom gave this example:

All the time, there is a war raging. It is a war between the flesh and the Spirit, or the minions and the Angels. When we start to walk in the flesh (ex. get mad at our brothers and say hurtful words or don't forgive them) we are helping the minions win against the Angels. When we turn away wrath, we are helping the Angels defeat the minions.

Now, I will tell you that you should really remember this when you start walking in the flesh. I can tell you it works! The other night we had stayed up very late, and I was getting a little grumpy. I was mad at my sister, but I didn't want to admit it or say sorry. As I laid in bed thinking about it and scowling, I started thinking about the fight going on. I could see the evil minion pushing the Angel down every time I had a hateful thought. I started getting worried. What if that minion beat my Angel? I couldn't let it do that. I started thinking about how I was in the wrong and not my sister. Then, I started feeling repentful about what I had done. I could see the minion slowly falling; struggling for the winning slice, but, my Angel was already defeating him to a degree that would make it difficult to get up. Then, I felt VERY sorry and asked for forgiveness. The minion fell down in defeat and the Angel held up his sword in victory. Now, this may sound rather silly and not completely theologically accurate to you, but it brought a picture to me that made the verse so real! I also know that whenever I start feeling like that again, I will think about that Angel and the minion.

I would love to hear every one's thoughts about this post.
Keep striving for the best in you, and striving to do your best to delight in Him!

God Speed,
Sarah

9 comments:

Prairie Momma said...

Thank you for the encouragement. My analogy may have been off slightly, but it does paint a picture worth remembering - and hopefully something that will remind us to turn, repent, and let The Fruit of the Spirit lead us as we walk each day. At least the boys saw the bigger picture with that example :):). You continue to admonish me as well as I was just struggling last night about being content in an area in my life. What an ugly monster it is for me, but one that I can conquer through Christ!!!! I Love you!!!
Momma

Anonymous said...

Thanks Prairie Momma! ;)
I was just telling Marissa that I was so glad when people have been blessed with the wisdom of certain things and they share them with the rest of us (We were talking specifically about "Before you meet Prince Charming" by Sarah Mally). The Lord just laid that on my heart. I had never really thought about any of those verses about delighting in the Lord until Marissa mentioned it. :) Then it really set me to wondering about it all and led me to research it. :) I am glad that I was able to admonishly encourage you in your Walk!
I love you so much!!!!
Sarah

Marissa said...

Hey Sarah Bear!
Great post! I am so glad you got around to posting about this. I got your letter the other day and have been eagerly awaiting the post. =) I plan to right you back....um...someday...right now I can't seem to see beyond the next lab report with I should actually be working on for tomorrow. . . . =) I have semester finals this coming week and I'm not over thrilled about them. Frankly I am dreading everyone of them. Uggg well, back to work. I love you dear. Thank you for the encouragement!

Evelyn said...

I love you posst. I don't think people are ever truly happy until they learn to be content with what they have. Mike says I never cease to amaze him at how happy little things can make me. But all those little things are what makes up the big picture.

I totally understand about serving others also. I always feel better helping others. I have always felt we were put here to help others. It is very fulfilling to me.

You have learned alot at an early age that quite a few people never learn. Thanks for sharing! Love, Aunt Evie

Anonymous said...

Hey Aunt Evie! Thanks for stopping by! :)
Yes, it is the small things that make up the big picture. If we are happy about the small things than we will more than likely be less dissapointed when the big things don't turn out well. :)
Rissie, I am glad that you found it encouraging. :) Did you know who that "friend" was?? ;)
I will pray that you get all your stuff for finals done!
I love you both!
Sarah Bear

Marissa said...

I made a wild stab...I could be wrong though. ;) I'm part way through the hard stuff. I have some more finals but they are more spread out and not till the end of the week. =) * Love and Hugs,
~Rissie

Anonymous said...

Well, I hope that we will maybe pick a book that we have all read for discussion and then you don't have to worry about reading it but can just skim through. :)
I am sure that they wild stab is correct!! ;)
Love you dear!!
Sarah Bear

Trisha said...

Hi, Sarah!
Great post! It is amazing how being a servant lifts the spirit. And if someone else says otherwise,there's somethin' seriously wrong with 'em!:)
I know what you mean about making New Year's resolutions - they're easy to make, but hard to keep! I'm afraid I haven't done too well in keeping last year's resolutions either, but with God's help, I'll be strivin' to do better this year.
Well, keep up the good posts! I enjoy reading them!

~Scribe

Anonymous said...

Hey Scribe!
Thanks for stopping by!
Yep, I would agree that there would be somethin' wrong if they think that being a servant doesn't lift the spirit! ;)
I will pray that you will keep those resolutions!

Keep serving Him,
Sarah